Sensory play for babies: Best sensory toys & activities to try
Babies are born with all five senses – sight, smell, touch, hearing and taste. While we don’t remember learning to use our eyes or ears, sensory development is something that all babies are doing in the first few years of their lives. And the best way to help them is with sensory play.
What is sensory play for babies?
Sensory play is any activity that stimulates a baby’s senses, whether it’s touch, sight, taste, smell or hearing. Sensory toys and activities are designed to do just that: aid in a child’s sensory development through enabling them to play with, create and explore textures, colours, flavours, scents and sounds.
The benefits of sensory play range from physical to intellectual: it helps babies to form important neurological connections, and aids in language development, problem solving and developing motor skills. The best thing about it is that all this takes place in the form of play, meaning there’ll be no skimping on giggles and smiles while your little one does some important learning!
Sensory toys for babies and toddlers
Sensory toys encourage babies and toddlers to use their eyes, ears, mouths,
noses and fingers to experience sights, sounds, tastes, smells and textures. Some of our favourite sensory toys include:
- Teethers, such as this rainbow teether by Nature Bubz, which helps with teeth, gum and jaw development
- Chunky / 3D puzzles, where large puzzle pieces must be placed into order to create a picture, aiding with visual development and problem solving
- Pop up books, which aid in visual and language development through
exploring shapes, colours and words - Maracas, which aid in auditory and motor skills development
Sensory activities for babies, newborns and toddlers
Sensory activities come a lot more naturally to parents and carers than you might think. Sensory activities for newborns include belly time, aiding in development of back, neck and core muscles, and almost everything parents do with their babies – singing, cuddling, rocking, talking to them and playing.
For babies, even starting on solid foods and exposing them to a range of colours, textures and tastes is a sensory experience. Other activities include water play, finger painting, walks in the pram and sand pit play.
For toddlers, everything from walking to eating dinner counts as sensory play, but you can enhance their development through playing with musical toys like xylophones, taking a bubble bath, dancing, helping mum or dad with cooking, and sorting things into colour categories.
These are some of our favourite sensory toys and activities, but you can always make sensory play your own – when it comes to sights, sounds, smells, textures and tastes, the world is your oyster!
Nursery decor tips for creating the perfect baby room
For most parents-to-be, decorating the baby’s room is one of the most exciting activities in the lead up to the due date. But nursery decor isn’t something we’re familiar with until we’re preparing for our first baby, and there are millions of baby room ideas to take inspiration from. It can be overwhelming!
Here are our best nursery decor tips to help you create the baby room of your dreams, from choosing a colour scheme to selecting baby furniture and nursery decorations.
Nursery decor: Colour
Colour needs no introduction when it comes to decorating a nursery – it’s usually the first thing we think of! Starting with an on-trend neutral colour like grey or taupe is a popular choice, whether it’s a girl, a boy, or a surprise for the expectant parents.
Your secondary colours are where you can get creative – pair neutrals with something brighter like yellow, pink or green to make the space feel more fun and baby-friendly.
Nursery decor: Baby furniture & decorations
Choose staple baby furniture items, such as the crib, in your neutral colours, and things that are easily switched out – like rugs, blankets and pillows – in your accent colours, so you can always try out your other baby room ideas later.
Nursery decor: Artwork
The baby may not appreciate art, but decorating the walls with pictures can make a nursery feel instantly more sweet and sophisticated. Whether it’s family photos or a cartoon quilt, add some warmth and whimsy by hanging some art on the walls.
Nursery decor: lighting fixtures
Lighting fixtures can add a sweet and soft touch to a baby’s room. Choose a cutesy nightlight for a low-light, sleep time option, but consider accenting the ceiling with a simple chandelier, pendant-style or rattan light shade to add an interesting and fun touch to your nursery decor.
There are millions of baby room ideas out there to get excited about, but our most important nursery decor tip is to have fun with it! Choose colours and furniture that make your nursery feel warm, sweet and special, and you – and your baby – will enjoy the love and care you put into it for years to come.
Planning a baby shower? Here’s your ultimate guide.
If there’s an expectant mum in your life and she’s chosen you to host the baby shower, it may seem an exciting – but daunting – task. But planning a baby shower can be extremely fun and rewarding, and the games, gifts and
decorations you choose will create a happy, long-lasting memory for you, your girlfriends and the mum-to-be.
Here’s our ultimate guide to planning a baby shower, including baby shower invitations, decorations and games.
Baby shower invitations
For the best chance at getting all the mum-to-be’s loved ones there on the day, send the invitations out six to eight weeks before the baby shower. That will give guests plenty of time to save the date, RSVP, shop for gifts and find a babysitter if needed.
For a casual affair, sending email baby shower invitations is perfectly appropriate. If you’re envisioning a more formal event, go for paper invitations, and have fun with it – the arrival of a baby is a joyful occasion, so let it shine through when the paper comes out of the envelope.
Baby shower decorations
When you’re planning a baby shower, try to nail down the decorations at least three weeks before the event. Here’s how we’d approach baby shower decorations:
- Buy your non-perishable decorations, such as balloons, bunting, ribbons, napkins and table cloths, first 3-4 weeks out from the event.
- Plan and settle on a menu so you can plan to buy non-perishables 3-4 weeks out as well, such as canned goods and baking ingredients.
- The day before the shower, purchase any fruit and vegetables you need, so you have plenty of time to prepare them on the morning of the shower (if you’re not hiring a caterer).
- Buy flowers on the day of the shower.
Baby shower games
The games are the funnest part of any baby shower. To run baby shower games successfully, create an agenda a few days before the event so you’ll know what to get organised and when. Structure will ensure you worry less about organising on the day, and more about participating!
Here are some popular baby shower games:
- Name that tune: prepare a playlist of songs including ‘babe’ and ‘baby’. Play them for 10 seconds each, and have guests write down the name and artist of the tune.
- DIY baby blocks: Get 5cm x 5cm wooden blocks and buy paints and various craft supplies, and have guests decorate their own for the baby. It’ll double as a loving and thoughtful gift for the baby!
- Baby food game: Buy a range of baby food and put them into unlabelled cups or jars. Have guests blind taste them and guess the ingredients.
So, if you’re planning a baby shower, there’s no need to freak out! Start planning early, create an agenda and get everyone laughing with some games, and you’ll have created not only an event, but a beautiful memory for your friends and the guest of honour, the lucky mum-to-be.
Perfect Little Bundles stocks a range of baby gift suitable for baby showers.
My First Flopsy Baby Girl Gift Hamper
My First Flopsy Bunny Baby Gift Hamper is based on a classic tale of Peter Rabbit. A favourite book loved by young and old. Flopsy is the rather sweet, little sister of Peter Rabbit. Flopsy loves picking juicy blackberries with her sisters Mopsy and Cotton-tail. My First Flopsy Bunny Baby Gift features Marquise Romper, My First Flopsy Plush Toy, Emotion and Kids Muslin Wrap, Alimrose Bib and The Tale of Peter Rabbit Book. My First Flopsy Bunny Baby Gift Hamper is a timeless classic, ideal present for a baby shower or welcome gift for a newborn baby.
Classic Essentials Blue Stripe Baby Boy Gift Hamper
Classic Essentials Blue Stripe Baby Boy Gift Hamper is a wonderful gift of essentials for the newborn baby boy in your life. Classic Essentials Blue Stripe Baby Boy Gift Hamper features Marquise growsuit, singlet suit, singlet, bibs and muslin wrap. Classic Essentials Blue Stripe Baby Boy Gift Hamper is gorgeous gift for a baby shower or to welcome a newborn baby.
Bath Time Fun Unisex Baby Gift Hamper
Bath Time Fun Unisex Baby Gift Hamper is exactly that everything parents need for bath time. Bath Time Fun Unisex Baby Gift Hamper features Living Textiles lightweight and luxurious 100% cotton bath towel, Living Textiles 100% cotton face washers, Star and Rose Baby Face body milk gentle on the skin, Star and Rose Baby Face hair and body wash perfect for everyday use and Star and Rose Baby Face bum balm you will never know when you might just need this.
Bundles Of Love Unisex Baby Gift Hamper
A gift which leaves the recipient and their family feeling bundles of love. Bundles Of Love Unisex Baby Gift Hamper is exactly that, a gift which sends all your love to them.Bundles Of Love Unisex Baby Gift Hamper features the beautiful Marquise clothing range long sleeve growsuits, singlets, singlet suits and bibs. Bundles Of Love Unisex Baby Gift Hamper also include Living Textiles baby shawl a timeless blanket, a Jellycat Bunny a snuggle bunny loved by everyone and a 200ml bottle of bubbles for the new parents to celebrate the arrival of their newborn baby. Bundles Of Love Unisex Baby Gift Hamper timeless elegant gift perfect for a baby shower or to welcome a newborn baby.
Pregnancy During a Pandemic
Pregnancy is usually the time in your life where you are full of excitement and anticipation, from what car seats or strollers you’ll buy to what the gender of your baby will be and what name you’ll choose. Then, of course, we have to worry about the pandemic and that we’ve all been asked to stay home and distance ourselves from those very people that you’d want close to you right now.
Above all, the health and safety of you and your baby should be your number one priority.
The information about COVID-19 and pregnancy is limited so the safest option is to social distance yourself. Pregnant women would normally have a list of things to do, like eating healthy, staying fit and resting when you can. With the coronavirus on all our minds you will also need to add these things to your list;
1. Washing your hands regularly.
2. Avoiding contact with people that have a high temperature or flu symptoms.
3. Work from home if you can.
4. Stay connected with loved ones.
We’ve all heard the importance of 1, 2 and 3, but at Perfect Little Bundles, we think number 4 on the list is essential, especially when you are pregnant. While it is important to distance yourself from people that don’t live in your household, being separated from workmates, family and friends can make us feel anxious, lonely and depressed.
We are so lucky that we live in a world full of technology and can see and speak to someone on the other side of the world in a second. Schedule a zoom call with a group of friends or just reach out to a family member to catch up, virtually. It’s important for your mental health to stay social even during social distancing. If you’re pregnant or a new mum, please know you’re not alone. Keep communication open with those around you can still be supported no matter where you are.
How to keep your baby warm all winter
With the cooler months upon us now, it’s important that you make sure your baby stays warm and dry. The thought of dealing with a squirmy baby wrapped in blankets can be stressful, though.
We have put together some ways to make it easy to keep your baby healthy, warm and comfortable, whether you’re going to the shops or tucking him or her in at night.
How can I keep my baby warm at night without him getting too hot?
Naturally you want to keep your baby warm and cosy at night, it’s important not to let him or her get too warm. Overheating your baby is linked to an increased risk of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS), otherwise known as cot death.
There is no need to keep the heater on all night. Just dress your baby appropriately for the room temperature, by keeping his or her head and face uncovered, and using layers to dress him or her. The ideal temperature for a baby’s room is between 16 to 20 degrees celsius.
To prevent your baby overheating, keep his sleeping place away from radiators, heaters, fires and direct sunlight. Don’t put a hot water bottle or an electric blanket in his or her bed in any circumstances.
What helps to keep my baby at the right temperature?
Choose a fitted sheet and layers of cotton blankets for your baby’s cot, not a doona. Apart from the swaddle, sleeping bag all additional layers on blankets should be tucked in to keep the baby nice and snug. Your baby should be position towards the end of the cot. Keep plenty of extras on hand for changes, too.
Soft, one-piece, footed cotton sleepsuits help your baby stay warm all night by keeping him or her toasty from head to toe. Another way to keep your baby warm is the addition of a singlet underneath the sleepsuit. It is not recommended a baby wear a hat indoors for safety reasons.
Feel your baby’s tummy or back to see if he or she getting too hot or too cold, and adjust his or her bedding accordingly. If he or she too hot, remove one or more blankets as needed. If he’s cold, add a layer.
Other signs that your baby may be too hot include sweating, damp hair and heat rash.
Don’t feel your baby’s hands or feet to work out if he’s warm enough. It’s normal for them to feel cold. But if they look blotchy or blue, you could add mittens, socks or booties.
If your baby has a cold or fever, they’ll probably need less, rather than extra, bedding. Feeling his or her tummy or back will let you know whether you need to remove a layer to stop him or her from overheating.
To prevent your baby kicking off his covers, you could put him in a baby sleeping bag that has a zip. With a sleeping baby they aren’t able to bury themselves under the covers and their less likely to wake up because he’s feeling chilly. Sleeping bags are sleeveless, so your baby can still move his arms around while the rest of his body stays covered.
Sleeping bags come in different TOG ratings. For Australian winters, you shouldn’t need higher than a 2.5-TOG sleeping bag. Choose one without a hood that’s designed for night-time use, and is well-fitted around your baby’s arms and neck.
What should my baby wear when we leave the house?
A good rule of thumb is that a young baby needs one more layer of clothing than you do. Gather any extra clothing that you need in one place, so that you can dress your baby as quickly as possible before you head out.
Babies can lose a lot of heat through their heads, so always put a hat on your baby when going outside in winter. If their hands are exposed, put some gloves on them. Carry a spare pair if they tend to suck on their fingers. Make sure your baby wears socks to keep their feet toasty, too.
You can wrap a blanket around your baby once they are in the pram or carrier, if they are still cold. In a pram or stroller, a sheepskin liner will provide extra warmth and is highly breathable.
Remember to always remove your baby’s hat, coat and any extra layers of clothing as soon as you come indoors after being outside, even if it means waking then. Take care to do this if you go inside any shops. Many shops are kept very warm, and your baby could easily overheat.
Safety tip: In order to work properly in an accident, car seat straps must be snug. Make sure your baby isn’t wearing clothing that’s too bulky for their car seat, such as a coat, and don’t put blankets between your baby and the straps.
If your baby is in a car with the heating on, they won’t need to wear extra clothing. If the car is cold, you could add a blanket on top of the harness straps instead of underneath them. Make sure the blanket doesn’t cover their face or head, and take it off once the car warms up.
How long can my baby stay out in the cold?
Whatever the weather, it’s good for you and your baby to get some fresh air every day, whether it’s in a pram, sling, baby carrier or backpack. But if the weather is particularly bitter, you may want to keep any outdoor trips short, to prevent your baby from becoming too cold.
Your baby is unlikely to be too cold in a sling or carrier if they are dressed well because they’ll be close to you, but always check on their temperature.
Just keep in mind that while you’re working up a sweat pushing your baby around, your baby may get chilly before you do. Be aware of their behaviour. If their happy to be out at first but starts fussing after a while, they may be trying to tell you that they are cold.
It’s a good idea to check their tummy, ears and face regularly, and go inside before they get uncomfortable.
Safety tip: If your baby gets very cold, don’t try to warm their skin by rubbing it. It could make them sore. Instead, hold them skin against yours. You can tuck their hands under your armpits to warm them.
How can I keep my baby’s skin from getting chapped?
The chilly wind outside and the dry heat indoors can sap moisture from adult skin, so your baby’s delicate skin is especially vulnerable.
Keep your baby’s skin moisturised. Many lotions and creams are made especially for babies. If you’re heading outside, you could put some baby moisturising lotion or emollient on him to help prevent dry, chapped skin.
Hard water can be drying to your baby’s skin, so you don’t need to bath your baby every day in the winter months. Also, your baby may not like to be bathed when the room is cold. Close any windows and make sure the room is warm before you undress and bath them.
When you do wash your baby, use a mild baby cleanser and warm, not hot, water. Use a bath emollient if they have eczema or dry skin. Don’t let them soak in the tub for too long.
Wrap them in a towel as soon as you take them out of the water and pat, don’t rub, him dry quickly. Finish by putting a mild lotion or emollient on their skin.
Perfect Little Bundles has a range of blankets and wraps ideal for newborn babies to keep them warm during these colder months.
Living Textiles Lattice Baby Shawl White
Living Textiles Lattice Baby Shawl made with 100% cotton are perfect for special occasions and everyday use. Soft and breathable against baby’s skin, they each come presented a lovely gift box. A gorgeous blanket to wrap bub in, or use in their pram or bassinet.
Living Textiles Swan Princess Jersey Wraps 2 Pkt
Living Textiles luxuriously soft 100% cotton jersey swaddles are an essential for baby. Generously sized, super stretchy and fantastic for swaddling, they can even be used as an extra layer in the pram or for tummy time. Living Textiles smart-swaddles are made from a uniquely woven cotton that is incredibly stretchy but still maintains its shape. Swaddling can be a great way to keep baby from being disturbed by their own startle reflex and make them feel warm and secure as if they were cocooned in the womb.
Living Textiles 3pkt Baby Muslin Swaddle Wraps Charcoal Grey
Perfect Little Bundles is excited to offer these beautiful baby muslin swaddles muslin wraps from Living Textiles. Made from 100% cotton, this 3pk of baby muslin swaddle wraps from Living Textiles are a must have for any new parent. Each swaddle wrap is generously sized at 110 x 110cm and prewashed for extra softness. Ideal for swaddling, in the stroller, bassinet and handy to keep in the nappy bag for emergencies.
5 Gift Ideas to Cheer up your Pregnant Friend in Isolation
Our loved ones are now more than ever on our minds. With most people doing the right thing and staying at home. It can be tough not getting to spend time with your friends or family. Now imagine all the pregnant Mums or new parents that are in isolation with a new baby.
COVID-19 has changed all our lives and for those that are separated from their family or friends at a time that is usually celebrated, can be really tough. Social distancing is a must for these people right now, but we’ve found a way you can brighten up their day by sending something to show how much you care.
Here is a list of gifts to share the lockdown love with someone special.
FLOWERS
Send a bunch of beautiful buds to brighten someone’s day.
NETFLIX
Whether its Netflix, Stan or Disney see if your loved one has a subscription to stream to take their mind off being stuck at home.
BOOKS
There is nothing better than a cup of tea and a good book. Receiving a stack of mystery, thriller or romance to kick your feet up and take a load off your mind.
CANDLES
The gift of scent can lift your mood and may even help transport them to a tropical Island.
GIFT HAMPER
With our online store, there are hundreds of options. You can send a baby gift, nappy cake or you can even create your own hamper. They all come in a gorgeous box or wrapped in tissue to make the gift even more special.
Take a look at some of our favourites on their way to Mums across Australia.
Bundles Of Love Unisex Baby Gift Hamper
A gift which leaves the recipient and their family feeling bundles of love. Bundles Of Love Unisex Baby Gift Hamper is exactly that, a gift which sends all your love to them.Bundles Of Love Unisex Baby Gift Hamper features the beautiful Marquise clothing range long sleeve growsuits, singlets, singlet suits and bibs. Bundles Of Love Unisex Baby Gift Hamper also include Living Textiles baby shawl a timeless blanket, a Jellycat Bunny a snuggle bunny loved by everyone and a 200ml bottle of bubbles for the new parents to celebrate the arrival of their newborn baby.
Bath Time Fun Pink Baby Gift Hamper
Bath Time Fun Pink Baby Gift Hamper is lots of fun, just like bath time should be for everyone. Bath Time Fun Pink baby gift hamper features Living Textiles lightweight and luxurious 100% cotton bath towel, Living Textiles 100% cotton face washers, Star and Rose Baby Face body milk gentle on the skin, Star and Rose Baby Face hair and body wash perfect for everyday use and Star and Rose Baby Face bum balm you will never know when you might just need this.
My First Flopsy Baby Girl Gift Hamper
My First Flopsy Bunny Baby Gift Hamper is based on a classic tale of Peter Rabbit. A favourite book loved by young and old. Flopsy is the rather sweet, little sister of Peter Rabbit. Flopsy loves picking juicy blackberries with her sisters Mopsy and Cotton-tail. My First Flopsy Bunny Baby Gift features Marquise Romper, My First Flopsy Plush Toy, Emotion and Kids Muslin Wrap, Alimrose Bib and The Tale of Peter Rabbit Book. My First Flopsy Bunny Baby Gift Hamper is a timeless classic, ideal present for a baby shower or welcome gift for a newborn baby.
Classic Essentials Blue Star Baby Boy Gift Hamper
Classic Essentials Blue Stripe Baby Boy Gift Hamper is a wonderful gift of essentials for the newborn baby boy in your life. Classic Essentials Blue Stripe Baby Boy Gift Hamper features Marquise growsuit, singlet suit, singlet, bibs and muslin wrap. Classic Essentials Blue Stripe Baby Boy Gift Hamper is gorgeous gift for a baby shower or to welcome a newborn baby.
A gorgeous gift perfect for a newborn baby introducing out Kenny Koala Baby Gift Hamper. Includes Marquise singlet suit, Alimrose Koala Squeaker Rattle, Alimrose Bib, Emotion and Kids Muslin Wrap and Pram Pegs. The Kenny Koala Baby Gift Hamper is a wonderful gift for a baby shower or a welcome gift for a newborn baby.
There has never been a better time to shop small and shop local. Jump online and take a look at some of the amazing businesses around and brighten up their day with a sale and your friends’ day with a pressie. It’s a win-win.
How to swaddle baby the right way
Is there anything sweeter than a tiny baby wrapped snug as a bug? A snuggly, swaddled babe sleeps better, but there is a right and wrong way to wrap your bub.
To help, we’ve put together all the information parents need to know on how to swaddle baby the correct way, to protect their growing bodies and keep them safe. You may have already been shown this during antenatal classes, from a family member or friend of during your stay in hospital.
Here’s a guide to safe swaddling.
Is it safe to swaddle?
The reason most maternity health professionals recommend swaddling is to help babies adjust to life outside the womb. Some also like to refer to the first three months of a baby’s life as the 4th trimester of pregnancy. Keeping their little arms from flailing, which is known as the ‘startle reflex’, can stop babies from waking themselves.
Red Nose (formerly SIDS and Kids) says wrapping can also help keep babies in the recommended back position during sleep. The organisation explains there are some clear guidelines to follow when swaddling your baby:
- Make sure your baby is on their back, with their feet at the bottom of the cot.
- Ensure your baby is wrapped from below the neck – their face should never be covered.
- Use lightweight wraps, like cotton or muslin – blankets can cause overheating.
- You should make sure the swaddle is wrapped firmly, but not tightly. Loose wrapping could lead to your baby’s face becoming covered.
- Don’t overdress your baby under the wrap – just a nappy and singlet in warm weather and a lightweight grow suit in cooler weather is enough.
- Once your baby outgrows the startle reflex, at about three months, leave their arms free.
- Stop wrapping once your baby begins showing signs they are ready to roll over.
- Don’t wrap a baby if they are sharing a sleep surface with another person.
- Do not wrap a baby and then put them in a sleeping bag.
What impact does swaddling have on hip development?
In a recent survey of Australians, more than half admitted to never having heard of hip dysplasia. Yet, one in 50 Aussie babies is being treated for the condition.
It can mean months or years of medical treatment for children because the ball and socket of their hips don’t fit together. Healthy Hips Australia recommends that every baby has their hips checked at birth, then at six weeks, six months and 12 months old.
How to safely swaddle
Healthy Hips Australia recommends the following safe swaddling methods:
Diamond: Secure the baby’s arms individually. Twist the bottom of the wrap loosely so the legs are free to move within a sack, and tuck under your baby.
Square: Secure the arms individually. Fold up the bottom of the wrap loosely over the chest, to create a pouch for free leg movement, then tuck under your baby.
Sleep sack or pouch: Select those designed for free leg movement.
Perfect Little Bundles stock a range of beautiful muslin and jersey wraps ideal for swaddling a newborn.
Blushing Beauty Organic Muslin Wrap
Our soft multi use Blushing Beauty Organic Muslin Wrap is made from the finest quality Organic Cotton Muslin ideal for a newborn baby girl. Light weight, breathable and easy to use. They are super soft and gentle on baby’s skin.
Our soft multi use Alpha baby wrap is made from the finest quality Organic Cotton Muslin. Light weight, breathable and easy to use. They are super soft and gentle on baby’s skin. A simple and beautiful way to swaddle your baby.
Eucalypt Baby Jersey Wrap and Beanie Set
Our Eucalypt Baby Jersey Wrap and Beanie set is filled with gorgeous hand painted Australian flora & fauna. It measures approx 100cm x 100cm and comes with a matching beanie.
Emotion and Kids White Baby Muslin Wrap with Pink Spots
The Emotion and Kids Muslin Wrap is pretty in pink wrap is ideal for babies, whether its for swaddling, shading, or privacy when feeding. The unique fine weave super soft 100% cotton muslin wrap is comfortable and delicate, extra large size 140 x 120 cm is perfect for swaddling
Emotion and Kids White with Navy Stars Baby Muslin Wrap
The Emotion and Kids Muslin Wrap Twinkle, twinkle little star…this fun navy star wrap is ideal for babies, whether its for swaddling, shading, or privacy when feeding. The unique fine weave super soft 100% cotton muslin wrap is comfortable and delicate, extra large size 140 x 120 cm is perfect for swaddling.
Visiting New Mum and Baby
You just heard the baby has been born it is so exciting for everyone and visiting the mum and newborn comes top of all family and friend’s to-do list. But, before you tear off with your newborn baby hamper from Perfect Little Bundles to offer your congratulations there are a few things you need to consider. I know you would dearly love a cuddle with the baby asap, but you need to remember this time is about Mum, Baby and Family bonding. Your time for a cuddle will come soon enough. With that in mind, let’s take a look at what you need to think about when visiting, as well as some newborn baby gift ideas.
Important To Note
Firstly, with the elephant in the room or the world. Covid 19 or coronavirus. Most hospitals are only allowing one support person with the Mum, and siblings are not allowed to come to the hospital either at this time. There are current restrictions on all of us to only leave your home for essential travel. There will not be a mum who is not worried about this virus some more than others. The level at which depends on the mum and how she is feeling. Do Not in any circumstances visit if you are showing any signs of illness; you may know you are not infected, but the mum will still have concerns.
Ring the new Mum to let her know you are thinking of her, and let her know as soon as you are ok, and keep in touch until you are fit to visit. Maybe send her one of our lovely newborn baby gift hampers to show how much you are thinking of her.
Even showing no signs or symptoms of being unwell, it is a good idea to carry an antibacterial handwash. There are many eco-friendly hand sanitizers that you can pop into your handbag, so always on hand, so to speak!
Some extra points to think on:
- Don’t take your own kids, however much the mum loves them and them her. Kids and germs tend to go together.
- Show her you are being responsible by washing your hands or using your sanitizer as soon as you arrive.
- Don’t kiss the baby – I know, it’s hard to resist, but do! The mum will really appreciate your thoughtfulness and be thankful she doesn’t have to ask you.
Don’t Just Pop In
I know you are excited about the new baby but do not just drop-in unannounced, this will not go well with the new mum. Always check when the best time to visit is and do not be offended if they do not want a visit. It’s not about you, she may not be ready for visitors, and that has to be ok with you.
Important you tell her you do understand and not make her feel guilty about not wanting a visit. Tell her you will call again and see how the land lies. Support is essential at this time, and showing you understand is a vital component to her peace of mind.
All mums are different, some crave social attention, but others want to hibernate and bond with their baby as a family unit before having visitors.
On Your Way
Reminder: don’t just pop in! Call first even for an arranged visit, new mums especially are still working out their time schedules and baby’s don’t always co-operate, but you can. If mum is sounding hassled, offer to come again or maybe a bit later. An extra thoughtful gesture if you are going to visit, is to ask if they want something from a store you will be passing, and collect for them.
Bring Food
Time to cook is the first thing that goes to pot when a newborn baby comes into the home. A much-appreciated gesture as a visitor is to bring food. Dinners that can be eaten immediately or frozen, like lasagne or a casserole. Maybe even some jelly slice, choc crackle or fairy bread! Know her dietary likes and dislikes, and this is a gift that will be very much appreciated.
It is also a good idea to stock the new mum up on healthy, nutritious snacks, like a range of fresh fruit.
Offers Of Help Are Always Gratefully Received
Offering to help around the house or with the baby, can be much appreciated. Please be careful about how you make your offer. You do not want to imply she is not coping or neglecting herself, home or other kids. Things you could do to help; Offer to vacuum or clean – careful with this one, she might be sensitive to the fact her house is not as pristine as she would like. Walk the dog
Play with the older siblings
Offer to hold the baby while she has a nap or shower.
Get a shopping list from her and go and do the shopping for her.
The visit has to be about mum, and she shouldn’t be expected to serve or entertain you. No work talk! Focus on them and their feelings. Allow them to talk. One thing about 99% of mums, even ones who have had babies before, is they are sensitive and can see some comments or questions as judgmental.
Think Before You Speak
Even well-intentioned remarks can upset a new mum. Consider not asking closed questions like, ‘are you breastfeeding’ or ‘is the baby sleeping all night’. Try to make them more open-ended, that is about how they are feeling.
However close a family member or friend you are, avoid questions about her body, her home and her parenting skills. Keep the unsolicited advice for in a few months, or better yet wait to be asked!
Some mums find it very hard at first with a new baby, often feeling inadequate and your unconditional listening might allow her to share any of her doubts. If you are concerned about what is being said, encourage her to talk with a medical professional. Postpartum depression is not just ‘the blues’ it is an illness that should not be ignored.
Don’t Overstay Your Welcome
New mums get tired very quickly, so keep an eye on the amount of time you stay there. I know it’s hard to leave, but the best thing you can do is let her have some alone time with her baby or just chill out.
When a mum brings a new baby home, the first few days or weeks can be full of visitors and well-wishers. Make a note to yourself to call and visit after a month, when motherhood can become more complicated, and there are fewer people around.
Be there for them, take some food around, ask her & baby to go out for a meal or simply chat on the phone, let her know you care and she is not alone.
Being a good friend to the new mum and baby means putting them first.
xx
Newborn Baby Sale
NEWBORN BABY SALE
Just heard the new a family member or friend is expecting a baby. You are no doubt like myself and can’t help to start shopping for some gift. Perfect Little Bundles is the page to visit, we are having a Newborn Baby Sale to make way for new and exciting products.
Sale Products for Baby Girls
Alimrose Odette Kitty Ballerina Pink Blossom WAS $39.95 NOW $19.95
Odette is a sweet kitty ballerina made from linen & beautiful cotton & tulle. 25cm. Lovingly crafted from the finest fabrics and finished with care she will make a beautiful newborn baby girl gift. There is also a matching bib in the same Pink Blossom patter.
Alimrose Peter Pan Collar Bib Pink Blossom WAS $16.95 NOW $8.50
Such a pretty bib, perfect for a newborn baby girl! A sweet floral bib with a cute peter pan collar. Velcro fastening. Machine washable. The Alimrose Peter Pan Collar Bib Pink Blossom teamed together Alimrose Odette Kitty Ballerina Pink Blossom and Marquise 2 Pack Sleeveless Body Suit make a stunning gift perfect for newborn baby girl.
Alimrose Odette Kitty Squeaker Liberty Blue WAS $19.95 NOW $9.95
Odette Kitty Squeaker is a cute squeaker toy suitable from 3 months. The Alimrose Odette Kitty Squeaker Liberty Blue teamed together with Fairytale Organic Muslin Wrap and Marquise 2 Pack Sleeveless Body Suit make a stunning gift perfect for newborn baby girl.
Alimrose Scallop Baby Bib Liberty Blue WAS $16.95 NOW $8.50
Such a pretty bib, perfect for a newborn baby girl! Featuring a soft blue floral fabric with pink edge trim. Velcro fastening. Machine washable. The Alimrose Scallop Baby Bib Liberty Blue teamed together Alimrose Odette Kitty Squeaker Liberty Blue and Marquise 2 Pack Sleeveless Body Suit make a stunning gift perfect for newborn baby girl.
Sale Products for Baby Boys
Alimrose Linen Bloomer 0 To 6 Months Chambray WAS $29.95 NOW $14.95
The most delicious little linen baby bloomers ever. Featuring soft elastic leg and waist opening. 0-6 months. Perfect for the warm summer days. The Alimrose Linen Bloomer 0 to 6 Months Chambray teamed together Alimrose Bobby Bib Chambray Linen and Marquise 2 Pack Sleeveless Body Suit make a stunning gift perfect for newborn baby. Also available in 6 to 12 months.
Alimrose Bow Tie Baby Bib Blue Stripe WAS $16.95 NOW $8.50
Dress up your newborn baby in this smart bow tie baby bib. Pale blue stripe. The Alimrose Bow Tie Baby Bib Blue Stripe teamed together Alimrose Bunny Baby Rattle And Squeaker Linen Blue and Marquise 2 Pack Sleeveless Body Suit make a stunning gift perfect for newborn baby boy.
Muslin Wrap Sale Products
Snuggle Hunny Kids Azure Organic Muslin Wrap WAS $36.95 NOW $24.95
Our soft multi use Azure baby wrap is made from the finest quality Organic Cotton Muslin, light weight, breathable and easy to use perfect for a newborn baby girl or newborn baby boy. They are super soft and gentle on baby’s skin. A simple and beautiful way to swaddle your baby. This would make the perfect gift for a newborn baby or the expecting mum.
Snuggle Hunny Kids Bronze Organic Muslin Wrap WAS $36.95 NOW $24.95
Our soft multi use Bronze baby wrap is made from the finest quality Organic Cotton Muslin suitable for a baby girl or baby boy. Light weight, breathable and easy to use. They are super soft and gentle on baby’s skin. A simple and beautiful way to swaddle your baby. This would make the perfect gift for a new baby or the expecting mum.
This is just a few of the items we currently have on sale. Grab yourself a bargain whilst stock last. Payment via Credit Card, Paypal or Afterpay.
Enjoy Shopping xx
Discover or Surprise. Do you want to know what you’re having?
Finding out the gender of your baby can be one of the most exciting milestones of your pregnancy. Usually around the 18 to 20-week mark is when the technician can get a clear view – if your baby behaves and turns towards the camera. Some of us are positive that they want to find out the sex of their baby, and then there are some couples that may still be on the fence. If you aren’t too sure if you want to know, just let the technician know that you want to wait, and if you change your mind, you can always ask at your next scan.
We break down the pros and cons to knowing what you’re having or leaving it till delivery day and getting the surprise just before everyone else.
DISCOVER
There are some parents that there is no question; they want to know the gender of their baby. Here are some other reasons you may want to discover the sex of your newborn.
- Something to look forward to, almost like a reward halfway through your pregnancy. Especially if it has been a tough one.
- You may want to start to bond or feel like this is all really happening.
- Start your preparation for the nursery and start buying cute gender-specific clothes.
- If you have small children already, it can be a smoother transition for them if they know they have a baby brother or sister on the way.
- You want to pick a name already!
SURPRISE
It’s not an old fashion notion. There are a lot of couples that want to wait.
- The birth of your baby is one of the most magical days of your life, and the surprise won’t be spoilt by finding out before the birth.
- The incentive of unveiling the mystery of the sex could help you get through the tough stages of labour.
- Ultrasounds aren’t 100 per cent accurate, imagine thinking you are having a boy, doing all your shopping and it’s a girl.
What did you do?
Find out or wait for the surprise? Either way, we have you covered at Perfect Little Bundles with amazing gifts to shower your baby or if you’re giving a gift choose from our Baby Hampers or nappy cakes to add another surprise to delivery day.